Yes, But Can They Trust You? (Part 2 of 3)

Last week, I outlined Dr. Roger Mayer’s work on trust. He notes that ability is one key factor of growing trust as a leader (click here for part one on ability). In his work in executive education programs at NC State’s Poole College of Management, he notes that many participants want to learn how to create a culture of innovation and trust. He notes that while ability is critical, the second of three factors on growing trust as a leader is benevolence.

According to Dr. Mayer’s research, benevolence relies upon empathy and selflessness.    Empathy focuses upon the relationship between you and the other person. You have to take the time to learn about the other people on your team, their interests outside of work and what is important to them.

Selflessness focuses upon your intentions and motives.  Are you perceived as a “glory hound” or one who hogs the credit for any success? Do you attempt to shift blame if there are any negative impacts on the team’s work?

How have you seen some of the best leaders with whom you’ve worked demonstrate selflessness and empathy?  I look forward to your comments.

The Surprising Science Behind Motivation

As a leader, one of your primary tasks is to achieve organizational goals through other people.  Since you can’t do it all alone (really, you can’t-I’ve tried that and have failed miserably), part of your job as a senior executive is to motivate members of your team.  In the “bad old days”, managers and leaders relied on their formal authority roles (I’m the boss-do as I say) as the predominant way to motivate people.  That didn’t work, as any parent of a child over 3 years old can tell you. In today’s work world, many times you are working on a team that has people from various parts of the organization who band together in an ad hoc work group to accomplish a goal, then disband.  How do you help motivate people who don’t report to you?

In this 18 minute video from TED, Daniel Pink gives some surprising science behind motivational theory.  Grab a cup of coffee, soda, or water, and listen in on his TED talk. Mr. Pink is a journalist, who has written extensively about people in work, motivation, and trends in human behavior.

What parts from Mr. Pink’s presentation do you agree or disagree with?

 

 

How Great Leaders Inspire Action: Simon Sinek on TED

I saw this  18 minute TED talk by Simon Sinek on  how great leaders inspire action.  When I listen (and listen again), I am inspired on how this three circle concept that he articulates helps shape and guide decisions on a daily basis.

When you are either leading or a key contributor to any improvement effort, you want to maintain your core values in your daily decisions.  What I see as important is that the three circles help you  frame and guide decisions you make on a daily basis.  Whether you are working in a non-profit or commercial organization, this model can help serve as a filter for the decisions you make, especially when you are trying to improve in certain areas of your work or personal life.

Which key point from Mr. Sinek’s talk do you find most powerful?

How have you seen this work (or not work) in your work?

 

Welcome to the Shelton Leadership Center Blog

Welcome to the Shelton Leadership Center at North Carolina State University. This blog is a tool for values based leaders who want practical tools on various values based leadership topics. It also serves as a community commons to share lessons learned on their continuing practice of values based leadership.

The Shelton Leadership Center focuses on inspiring, educating, and developing values based leaders committed to personal ethics, professional ethics, and selfless service. We focus our work on emerging leaders and current leaders,  ranging from high school students to senior executives.

We look forward to continuing the conversation.